Thursday, November 14, 2013

Things happen for a reason

Been feeling awkward this past few weeks. No, I am not YET pregnant. It seems we look forward into pregnancy so much that just this week we realize that opportunity have finally come knocking on our door. It's just that we find it difficult to make choices, to pick which is which, to sort out stuffs, things to plan, to balance out everything now that we've done with the reception. Well, at least we're down with one more banquet end of this month.
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We also realize that things doesn't have to be perfect. That things will go by smoothly without us knowing, even noticing the flaws. Even if we did, we'd just look at the bright side and just say,"it's happened, what else can we do? just look at the bright side." Even our friends tells us the same thing, that things happen for a reason.
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A lot of mishap happen along the way. My car got hit by a motorcyclist, the spouse also go hit by a motorcyclist which got the whole village making ambulance call, then the mishap that happened the day before our wedding, Gosh! The turbulence that happened along the way had really stress the shit out of me. It's still a great day for the spouse though. He got to spend time drinking without me nagging him not to. I'm a good wife (pats back).
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Honeymoon had to wait until next year too. It's the end of the year. Deadlines, arrangements, scheduled work had to be put first. 
The wedding was alright. Did I had fun? Of course I did.
Did I get what I want? Not all of it.
Did I rejoice? I rejoice that its all over and even if you give me a million dollar, I'd still don't want to do it all over again because it was such a pressuring time for me. At times I feel like dying.

Blogging had been my life. I've mentioned this before, and I wouldn't mind mentioning it again. Blogging had helped me get through my college life and the few months before I started working. Been doing this for 5 years now and I want those people to know that what I do, write in particular had nothing to do with what you think of me, what you think I'm writing or what you claim I know about.
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This is life, it's not going to be perfect, there'll always be someone there to bring you down, someone who'd be there to kill your confidence, someone whom you think a friend but instead a fox in sheep's clothing etc. but always remember that even if God's there for you, that you read the bible everyday, if your hearts maneuver to the least favored lane in life, there is no difference between being holy and not going to church.
Have a great weekend everyone.
x

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