Wednesday, September 10, 2014

Life After Pregnancy

A soon-to-be-mother yay! Congratulation to myself. I really can't wait to hold baby in my arms. But, actually what have I to expect after delivering our baby? All this months of unexpected journey on becoming a new mother is finally coming to an end. But this final few weeks doesn't make me any better of a person than I was before. There are more people out there who expect things differently but end up with nothing but a shocking new experience.

And becoming a new parents means we will have more new harder experiences, like, many many sleepless nights. We've been surviving this journey ever since we found out when we took our almost 10th test few months ago. We didn't want our family to worry about us, so we tried few efforts to survive including working our butts off like crazy, etc. Life as new parents might be harder and might be more challenging. We will encounter new things along the way. Experiencing to deal with this and thats of being new parents.

I decided on this thing. I didn't know it will be this difficult and long journey. I have expectations too but I didn't expect it this way. And it's only just the beginning of another long journey. But no matter how difficult obstacles that will come to me, I always believe those obstacles will make me a better experienced person. Hopefully stronger in a different way. Right now, I work a full time job in my hometown. I like the job, it helps me pay the bills, it helps me to gain new lessons and experiences that I didn't learn before. The truth is, what you learn in school, college, university sometimes isn't that useful as lessons you learn in real life.

Take care.

1 comment:

StellaClaire-Richard said...

Trust me life wouldn't be the same after you had a baby. Perasaan menjadi seorang ibu tu paling berharga. You never really know what love is until you have a child.. :)